Maryam-27 years old with her daughters Fatima(left), Hafsat(right) and last son Goni-2 years old(on her laps). They were displaced from their town and are now living in Bulabulin. She is a widow who wants to go to school together with her children. 

Maryam is a 27 years old mother of 4 from Mafa. She vividly recalls how insurgents invaded their town and started shooting, killing people and burning houses. Her husband was slaughtered in her presence. She had to take away her children and flee for safety. While fleeing, she was afraid something bad might happen to her and her children. They spent 2 days in the bush without food and water but on the third day, they got a vehicle which safely transported them to Maiduguri. She is presently living with relatives who are assisting her and her children because she doesn’t have any source of livelihood at the moment.
She feels safe here and cannot go back home because she has no husband. Whenever she thinks about the death of her husband and the education of her children, she can hardly sleep. Her major needs are food, clothes, education for herself and her children.  It is her wish that she and her children will get the opportunity to enrol into school and also get something she can do to enable her take care of her children.
Some of Maryam quotes:
	“Our town was invaded and there were shootings and killings and burnings, they started killing men then my husband was slaughtered in my presence”
	“I cannot go back to the town because they have killed my husband and there is still no peaceful living in the town”
	“Now our needs is that we don’t have enough food, we don’t have enough clothes to wear and I want to enroll them into school”
	“My wish is for my children to get educated so they can be useful and also can get a job so that it will be useful to them in the future”

Photo: NRC/Ingrid Prestetun
Maryam with her daughters Fatima (left), Hafsat (right) and son Goni, 2 years old (on her lap). They are now living with relatives in the town Bulabulin. Photo: NRC/Ingrid Prestetun

The unheard voices of Nigeria

Ingrid Prestetun, Hanne Eide Andersen|Published 16. Jun 2016
Maryam’s husband was killed in front of her in northeast Nigeria. Nigeria is one of the countries in the Sahel, which is listed by NRC as the world’s most neglected forced displacement crisis.

“Our town was invaded. There were shootings, killings and burnings," says Maryam (27).

Maryam, her husband and their four children are among 14.8 million people affected by the brutal conflict and severe, humanitarian crisis in northeast Nigeria. Nigeria is one of nine countries in the Sahel, which tops NRC’s list of the world’s 10 most neglected forced displacement crises.

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The crisis in the northeast, seemingly forgotten by the world, has caused massive displacements and suffering. Maryam recalls how insurgents invaded their town Mafa and started shooting, killing people and burning houses.

Killing men

“They started killing men. My husband was slaughtered in my presence.”

Maryam managed to escape and flee to safety with her children.

“I was so afraid,” she says.She and the children spent two days in the bush without access to food and water. On the third day, they were picked up by people in a vehicle who safely transported them to Maiduguri, the capital of the conflict-ridden province of Borno.

Cannot go back

They are presently living with relatives in the town Bulabulini. Her relatives help them with everything. Maryam does not have a source of income.

“I cannot go back to the town because they have killed my husband and there is still no peaceful living in the town,” she says. When she thinks about the death of her husband, she can hardly sleep. She also worries a lot for her children and their future opportunities.

Wants education

“We don’t have enough food, we don’t have enough clothes to wear and I want to enroll them into school. My wish is for my children to get educated,” she says, adding that she also wants to go to school and get an education herself.

“I also need something to do that enables me to take care of my children.”

BACKGROUND

  • Since 2009, violent attacks on civilians by the armed group Boko Haram have left widespread devastation in northeast Nigeria.
  • At least 17,000 people have been killed and approximately two million people are displaced within Nigeria.
  • Over 14 million people are affected by the crisis. Out of these, seven million people are in need of humanitarian assistance.
  • Around 92 per cent of displaced people reside in either informal settlements or with low-income host communities, creating a strain on already limited resources. The remaining 8 per cent live in more formalised camps.
  • About 32 per cent of displaced households are female-headed households.
  • NRC has been in Nigeria since 2015.

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